Marriage Myths Debunked

Myth 1 : Marriage will end your loneliness.
You're in for a major disappointment if you actually jumped on the marriage bandwagon with this in mind. Many married people are lonely, because according to marriage guru Mike Constantine, it's a case of recognising that "a marriage won't make you happy, but you make a marriage happy."

Myth 2 : You won't be plagued with problems if you're truly in love.
Perfect relationships don't exist. According to renowned psychologist Dr Phil, "Arguing can actually help the quality and longevity of a relationship. The issue isn't whether you fight; it's how you do it."

Myth 3 : Having babies will boost your bond.
Remember post-partum depression? The arrival of a newborn can be hard on a woman's body and emotions. Numerous couples have been driven apart by their children because it adds stress to their marriage.

Myth 4 : Getting married means saying sayonara to your sex life.
Studies have shown that married people have more sex than their unmarried counterparts. Not only do they have sex more often, but they also enjoy it more, both physically and emotionally.

Myth 5 : A great marriage depends on a great meeting of minds.
As Dr Phil puts it, "Men and women are wired up differently. You're different genetically, physically, spiritually.. so why wouldn't you be mentally and emotionally different?" Now, celebrate those differences, and compromise!

Myth 6 : Romance will always be alive in a good marriage.
This isn't Hollywood! In the real world, every relationship has its peaks and valleys. Love will eventually shift from fiery passion to a warm amber glow.