Getting In The Groove

Lights! Music! Flowers! Having the right peripherals helps you set the right mood to the central theme of your proposal.


1. Lighting helps. It really does.
A major mood-setter is the lighting of the environment. Yellow lights or soft lighting tend to give a more romantic feel to the overall environment. That's the reason why candlelight dinners remain one of the top places to pop the question. In a place that does not offer candlelit dinners, the dreamy, soft effect of candles can be duplicated by lamps or muted lights. Of course, this setting also helps ease any nerves a guy may have about proposing (hides the blushes!).

2. So does music.
Depending on what mood you're targeting to set, music plays an important role. Though most would probably opt for a more traditional approach with the typical slow love songs, others may choose to go with alternatives. Jazzy music helps set a bluesy mood, while classical instrumentals may give a more formal feel to the situation. Perhaps to you, playing head-bangers is the way to go. Anything goes as long as it helps you both to get into the mood.

3. Flowers add the final touch.
Unless your gal suffers from hay fever, think about getting her a bouquet of flowers to complement your proposal. A single stalk can also provide an elegant feel. Make sure that the flower you choose gives the correct meaning to the occasion. The color of the flowers is also important.

Now, you're all set to propose. Good luck!